and there's more

too much sadness. I just feel so sad about how things are falling out for people I care about. I feel their pain. How do you come to the place where you know it's not working after starting out so well, maybe I have been lucky, I don't understand. I was thinking about something I heard someone say, the relationship takes work.... really? My relationships never feel like work, they feel like love, and joy and a desire to do something that will make someone else happy. How is that work? Wow, if it feels like work then I guess you are already in trouble.